Basic Code of Polite Behaviour in Society

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Overview

Professional and social etiquette governs how individuals conduct themselves in workplaces, meetings, dining settings, and shared spaces. Mastering these behavioural codes builds credibility, strengthens relationships, and creates positive impressions. This note covers corporate etiquette, meeting conduct, table manners, and shared-space courtesy.

Key Concepts

• Corporate Etiquette – a set of unwritten professional norms covering customer interaction, communication channels, dress, and workspace behaviour
• Meeting Etiquette – rules for punctuality, preparation, attentiveness, and respectful dialogue during meetings
• Table Manners – behavioural standards for dining in professional or social settings
• Phubbing – the act of ignoring others by using a phone during a shared social activity
• B-D Formula – a mnemonic for remembering that bread is on the left ("b" shape) and drink is on the right ("d" shape) at a table setting

Detailed Notes

Corporate Etiquette

Customer Etiquette

• Patience is the single most important quality when dealing with customers
• Never take comments or insults personally
• Do not interrupt the customer while they are speaking
• Stay focused on the product or service being discussed
• Show empathy and acknowledge the customer's perspective
• Take responsibility for mistakes rather than deflecting blame
• Use three key phrases regularly: "Sorry," "Welcome," and "Thank You"

Phone Etiquette

• Never speak on the phone while eating — chewing sounds are audible to the other party
• Avoid taking calls in washrooms — microphones pick up background sounds
• Avoid using speakerphone as it compromises privacy
• When calling, identify yourself and your organisation, then ask how you can help
• If you miss a call, return it once; if unanswered, leave a message rather than calling repeatedly

Email Etiquette

• Write a clear, specific subject line that identifies the topic
• Use polite language regardless of the situation
• Address the recipient by name (e.g., "Hello Mr./Ms. [Name]")
• Address senior individuals formally (e.g., "Dear Sir/Madam")
• Proofread for grammar and spelling errors before sending
• Close with an appropriate sign-off (e.g., "Thank You," "Regards," "Best")
• Use simple, direct language — avoid confusing the reader
• Keep the body to 2–3 short paragraphs
• Always re-read the email before pressing Send

Business Dress

• Wear formal, comfortable clothing appropriate to the workplace
• Avoid anything that looks unprofessional or overly casual

Workspace (Cubicle) Etiquette

• Do not enter someone's workspace without permission
• Do not interrupt someone who is focused on work
• Do not peek or look into others' screens or spaces
• Keep your voice low; use an earpiece for phone calls

Interview Etiquette

• Arrive at least 15 minutes early; avoid repeatedly asking how long the process will take
• Allocate sufficient time — do not rush
• Update and know your résumé thoroughly
• Dress appropriately and maintain tidy grooming
• Knock before entering the interview room
• Greet everyone present and say "Thank You" when leaving

Meeting Etiquette

• Be on time — lateness reflects poorly regardless of seniority; if unavoidably late, enter quietly and apologise briefly
• Be well-groomed — follow the dress code (formal or casual) appropriate to the meeting type
• Switch off or silence mobile phones — do not check messages or social media during the meeting
• Be prepared — review the agenda and complete all paperwork in advance
• Do not interrupt the speaker — wait until they finish, then respond politely; meetings are discussions, not arguments
• Stay on topic — meetings are time-bound; do not raise matters outside the agenda

Table Manners

• Avoid phubbing — keep phones on silent; do not use devices at the table
• Wait for the host to sit before taking your seat; spread your napkin on your lap
• Maintain good posture — sit straight; elbows on the table are acceptable only before food arrives
• Use the B-D formula — bread plate is on your left ("b"), drink glass is on your right ("d")
• Ask others to pass dishes rather than reaching across the table
• Wash hands before and after eating
• Do not talk while chewing food
• Wait for the host's signal before beginning to eat
• Always compliment the food — acknowledge the host's effort
• As a guest, politely decline food that does not suit you, but make an effort to taste special dishes
• Adapt to the setting — use utensils (fork and knife) in formal dining environments; follow local customs in informal ones
• To leave the table temporarily, a simple "Excuse me" is sufficient — no detailed explanation is needed
• When finished, place cutlery in the "finished" position (e.g., knife and fork together at the centre of the plate) to signal to servers

Elevator / Shared-Space Etiquette

• Let people who arrived first enter before you, even if it means waiting for the next one
• Assist elderly individuals and practise a "first-come, first-served" approach
• Hold the door open using the door-open button so others can enter comfortably
• Press only the button for your floor
• Maintain personal space — do not push or crowd others
• Say "Excuse me" when moving past someone
• If you are blocking someone's exit, step out, let them pass, then re-enter

Tables

Corporate Etiquette at a Glance

Meeting vs. Dining Etiquette Comparison

Diagrams

Corporate Etiquette Framework

Source process map

1. 1Corporate Etiquette
2. 2Customer Etiquette
3. 3Communication Etiquette
4. 4Workspace Etiquette
5. 5Professional Appearance
6. 6Phone
7. 7Email
8. 8Cubicle Conduct
9. 9Interview Conduct
10. 10Business Dress
11. 11Grooming

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Meeting Conduct Workflow

Source process map

1. 1Before the Meeting
2. 2Review agenda and prepare paperwork
3. 3Dress appropriately and arrive on time
4. 4During the Meeting
5. 5Silence phone and stay focused
6. 6Listen without interrupting
7. 7Respond politely and stay on topic
8. 8After the Meeting
9. 9Follow up on action items

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Dining Etiquette Sequence

Source process map

1. 1Arrive
2. 2Wait for host to sit
3. 3Place napkin on lap
4. 4Wait for hosts signal to eat
5. 5Use B-D formula for place setting
6. 6Eat without talking while chewing
7. 7Compliment the food
8. 8Say Excuse me if leaving temporarily
9. 9Place cutlery in finished position when done

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Key Terms

• Corporate Etiquette – the set of professional behavioural norms expected in a workplace
• Phubbing – ignoring people in a social setting by using a mobile phone
• B-D Formula – a mnemonic where "b" (left hand) marks the bread plate and "d" (right hand) marks the drink glass
• Speakerphone – a phone's hands-free mode that broadcasts audio publicly, reducing privacy
• Dress Code – the expected standard of clothing for a particular setting (formal, business casual, casual)
• Agenda – a list of topics or items to be discussed during a meeting
• Proofreading – reviewing written text for grammar, spelling, and clarity errors before sending
• Minutes – the official written record of what was discussed and decided in a meeting

Quick Revision

1. Customer etiquette centres on patience, empathy, taking responsibility, and using polite phrases ("Sorry," "Welcome," "Thank You").
2. Phone etiquette requires identifying yourself, avoiding noisy environments, not calling repeatedly, and leaving a message instead.
3. Email etiquette demands a clear subject line, polite tone, short body (2–3 paragraphs), proper greeting, and proofreading before sending.
4. Workspace etiquette means respecting others' space, seeking permission, speaking softly, and not interrupting.
5. Interview etiquette includes arriving 15 minutes early, knowing your résumé, dressing well, and greeting/thanking everyone.
6. Meeting etiquette requires punctuality, preparation, silenced phones, no interruptions, and staying on the agenda.
7. Phubbing (using your phone while with others) should be avoided in both meetings and dining settings.
8. The B-D formula helps remember table placement: bread on the left, drink on the right.
9. At formal meals, wait for the host before sitting and eating, compliment the food, and place cutlery in the finished position when done.
10. In shared spaces like elevators, practise courtesy — let others go first, hold doors, maintain personal space, and say "Excuse me."